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Today I woke up and chose violence. Violence with a whipped cream topping. Maybe a few sprinkles. So let me take a moment to send a Happy Fatherless day to the. Kevin Samuels supporters who keep finding my blog. Kevin Samuels came to me in a dream and reminded me that he is still dead & his funky ass flock is out here wandering around with no one to lead them. I was so tickled as I listened to his whining about his youtube channel collecting dust. He is thoroughly pissed that his mission was cut short. He was juuuuust about to take over the world with his fuckery and Mama Earth jumped in & choked the hate out of his caved in chest. I told him to settle down & lay off the red bulls, then I woke up and decided to blog about his sheep.

Single mothers of males, please, do something about your sons. Now. Because they are dangerous and we are tired. I did a little reading & decided to crunch some numbers. Giiirl tell me why I stumbled upon a Wall Street Journal article from 1998 that blew my socks off! The title alone is complete SHADE! “Fatherless Boys Grow Up Into Dangerous Men”. I saw this & chuckled a bit because I felt in my bones that this article was a wig snatcher. Being a WSJ article is interesting enough, but the time period is the icing on the cake. 1998 was a very unfiltered time. This was before Gen Z came along to ruin comedy & freedom of speech. This was a time when no one gave a damn at all about being politically correct. No fucks were given. I can say that this article did not disappoint. Let’s get into this tea.

The article starts with a story of a man named George. He was with his family at a hotel in Florida. He opened his hotel door & 3 fatherless teens opened fire. All 5 family members were wounded. This was the final act of a four-day shooting spree. According to the author, all 3 teens “came from homes broken by divorce or unwed parenting”. She dropped some numbers on us to show that this was not a coincidence.

“Between 1980 and 1990 the homicide arrest rate for juveniles jumped 87%. Following rapid changes in family formation in the 1970s, youth violence rose sharply in the 1980s and ’90s, even while it declined for adults over age 25. Such correlations are merely hints that fatherlessness causes crime. Until recently, scientific evidence has been hard to come by. Researchers had long suspected a link between father absence and crime, but few had access to the kind of large nationally representative database needed to rule out alternative theories. Since boys raised by single parents disproportionately come from disadvantaged backgrounds, maybe it was not fatherlessness but poverty or discrimination that put them at risk of crime. Nor could most of these earlier studies distinguish between different sorts of disrupted families: Was it just children of unwed mothers who were at risk, or did divorce have similarly negative effects? Is a stepfather as good as a biological dad? How much does remarriage, which dramatically raises family income, do to restore to children the protection of a two-parent home?

The author pulled out receipts from Cynthia Harper, a demographer at the department of obstetrics and gynecology at the University of California, San Francisco, and Princeton’s Sara McLanahan, one of the nation’s top family scholars. These 2 ladies followed 6,403 boys who were between the ages of 14 and 22 in 1979, up through their early 30s. This is a copy & paste from the article.

“Boys raised outside of intact marriages are, on average, more than twice as likely as other boys to end up jailed, even after controlling for other demographic factors. Each year spent without a dad in the home increases the odds of future incarceration by about 5%.

Boys raised by unmarried mothers are at greater risk, but mostly, it appears, because they spend more time without a dad. A child born to an unwed mother is about 2 1/2 times as likely to end up imprisoned, while a boy whose parents split during his teenage years was about 1 1/2 times as likely to be imprisoned.

Child support made no difference one way or another in the likelihood a boy will grow up to be a criminal. And sadly remarriage made things worse: Boys living in stepparent families were almost three times as likely to face incarceration as boys from intact families. In fact, note Ms. Harper and Ms. McLanahan, “the odds for youths from stepparent families are similar to those for youths who do not live with any parents, although these children, in addition to not having any parents care for them, are selected for more difficult family circumstances.” Apparently stepfathers and children frequently compete for the time, attention and resources of the biological mother. Ms. Harper cautions, however, that “there may be lots and lots of household that benefit enormously from a stepfather. These are large national averages.”

Poverty did make it more likely that a boy will be incarcerated as an adult. But “family structure was more important than income,” reports Ms. Harper, though she’d like to see that finding replicated using other, more reliable income data. Though Ms. Harper and Ms. McLanahan’s data don’t prove this, I think their evidence suggests that, while the structural advantages of marriage (more time, more supervision and more money) help, the attachment between father and son may be the key. Fathers teach their sons lessons, directly and indirectly, about what it means to be a man. When boys identify with fathers who are loving and available, the likelihood lessens that they will define their masculinity in terms of rebellion and antisocial aggression.END MOTHERFUCKING QUOTE BITCH πŸ˜‚

This article is very interesting because single mothers of males seem to feel that working like a dog to provide Jordans and video games for their sons will keep him out of trouble. According to this old ass shady ass article, poverty did not make it more likely that a boy will be incarcerated. He could have the Jordans or the Payless light-ups and he will still offend and re-offend. The father needs to be present. Period. Finding a new man might not help either ma’am. Meeting some man at the gas station & moving him into your home is not the cure. I also hear absent fathers talking about the child support that they pay, as if that is enough. Your $28/month won’t stop your son from being a damn degenerate. Be present. If you can’t do that maybe put a condom on your dick? That is ALWAYS an option Kevin Samuels Jr. & Kevin Samuels the third.

This blog is for women only, but males definitely read it. I get emails. They gonna be BIG MAD at this one. But ladies, please know that I am going to drag you for filth in just a few. Sip slow.

I know that some of you bitter parents are going to claim that this information is old so it’s no longer relevant. I’m about to burst your delusional bubble real quick. I only pulled the older article to prove a point. All of these males who were growing up in the 80’s & 90’s are now angry bitter KEVIN SAMUELS FOLLOWERS! πŸ›ŽοΈ Is it making sense now? The article is talking about you & your single ass mammy sir. But now let’s talk about the peasy head ass sons that you abandoned. Let’s zoom into 2022 & 2023 πŸš€

An article from The Federalist: The Epidemic Of Fatherless Boys Is Unraveling Our Society. “New report finds that boys who have an absent father are less likely to graduate college, more likely to idle in their 20s, and more likely to go to jail.” The author quoted research done by Brad Wilcox.

Wilcox reports that the percentage of boys living in homes without a biological father has almost doubled since 1960 – from 17 percent to 32 percent – resulting in an estimated 12 million boys growing up without a biological dad.

Wilcox writes, β€œLacking the day-to-day involvement, guidance, and positive example of their father in the home, and the financial advantages associated with having him in the household, these boys are more likely to act up, lash out, flounder in school, and fail at work as they move into adolescence and adulthood.” ” Here’s the link to the full article

I found another blog post about a father’s impact on child development. Read it & tell me what you think

I think that my point has been made. Your fatherless sons are dangerous. I saw black women on facebook and clubhouse screaming in anger at the “influence” of Kevin Samuels. Black women felt that KS was encouraging black males to hate single moms. Let me drop some tea on you sis. THESE MALES HAVE ALWAYS HATED YOU. Kevin (Kitten Heels) Samuels only gave them the courage to openly express their hate for you. They always felt that way. I remember hearing Kendall St. Charles speak on these angry males who were raised by single moms. I’m pretty sure that she said that these males hate you for birthing them with no father around. I completely agree with that. I take phone sex calls from angry males every day. If I happen to get a call from a black male I know immediately that he is calling me to complain about his black mother OR to talk about his sexual attraction to children. It never fails. I believe that ALL fatherless males are potentially dangerous, but the fatherless black males are terrifying. They have so much rage and aggression. They seem to hate women more than the average male does. And because of their coddling black mothers, they feel very entitled and they cannot accept the word NO. And now the dragging of the mammies begins.

Yesterday I was on clubhouse listening to a bunch of dysfunctional black people complain about single motherhood & child support, and one woman got on the one & only single nerve that I have. Sis was almost in tears while expressing her frustration with the criticism that single mothers get. She basically said that it takes 2 to make a baby πŸ™„ it’s not just the mom, the men play a part too, and now it’s all on the woman to raise the kids & blah blah blah. I took it upon myself to bring the attention to basic common sense. Black males as a collective have ALWAYS been absent fathers. Always. If you CHOOSE to fuck them with no protection, you CHOSE single motherhood. It’s really very simple. They usually don’t stick around. We all know this. Use self control & common sense. Control your fertility! It is your body. You own it. Stop letting them enter you with no protection. You are risking your life in so many ways. Whining about males being males while still allowing them to have access to you is just insane. He did not marry you, so he can walk away. Duh sis? Didn’t Christelyn Karazin tell you all “No wedding, no womb”? Are you not listening? And to be honest even if you don’t listen, do you not see the pattern here? What happens to a black woman’s brain when a black male pulls his dick out? Do you just forget that you want to live and be healthy & happy? Or do you just consciously choose to throw that away because the dick is more important? I feel that society is moving past the exhausting burden of having empathy for women who keep choosing to lay down with irresponsible males who won’t marry you. You are unmarried, unprotected, now pregnant because that’s what unprotected sex can do to a womb πŸ™„ and you CHOOSE to carry & birth the child even though this male is clearly not interested in anything long term with you. Sis, you chose to be a single mom. Deal with your choice. Stop whining to the rest of us about something that you could have easily prevented. And while I have you here, can we talk about how annoying and dangerous your precious baby boy is? WE ARE TIRED OF YOUR HALF RAISED BASTARDS! I do not know if this is an issue with other races, but black single mothers of sons are DANGEROUS! Black single mothers have convinced themselves that the entire white race is after her son. She is convinced that the whites don’t want him to succeed. They have nothing better to do than sit around and plot on the carefully mapped out downfall of her one single snotty-nosed son. What in the fuck is wrong with you sis? I’m pretty sure that white people are somewhere just being white. And if there is a plan to stop the black males from reaching for the stars, let me offer some advice to the whites. Pull up close hypothetical white people who are stopping black excellence. This is for you. It is better to let Pookie & Ray Ray succeed & earn a decent living. When they don’t work, they rob and kill. Period. They no longer keep the robbing and killing in the hood. They are migrating just like your ancestors did. They are coming to a suburb near you. Let them be.

Black single mothers feel that the entire world is a threat to her baby boy who can do no wrong, so she coddles him to make up for the damage that the world will cause him. She will hide his drugs in her bedroom. She will bail him out of jail numerous times. If he has to serve time she will put money on his books. He can live with her rent free until the day that one of them dies. His sister has to leave at 18 though. If she gets pregnant before the age of 18 she’s out sooner. But that thieving Newport smoking video game playing son? He can stay until the cows come home & then have a nice glass of milk. Rent free. This is why black fatherless males feel so entitled to black women. His black ass mammy never said no. She never holds him accountable. This is why it is so deadly to reject a black male’s sexual advances. They will kill you for saying no when they ask for your phone number. They will harass you and follow you and call you ugly because you are not interested in them. They throw a full tantrum because what the fuck does no even mean? THIS IS DANGEROUS! AND WE ARE TIRED!

I think that I have said enough but I hope that black women will consider the safety of other women while raising their sons. I hope that black women will start to think about the struggles of single motherhood before taking their clothes off for a male. I hope that black single mothers can take a moment to stop obsessing over their sons & think about the threat that he is to someone’s daughter. Think about the rape and abuse that he can cause because you are irresponsible and delusional. Do better. You are a woman. Instead of being so hyper-focused on your son’s safety, maybe put your womanhood first and focus on the damage that your son can cause to women, AND TO YOU.

I hope that this blog post gave you all something to think about. I’ll be back soon πŸ§œπŸΏβ€β™€οΈβ€οΈ


  1. Great post. I think this correlates with all the stuff that has come out over the last 9-10 months about males lagging in all aspects of life lately, including the article about “lonely single men” and Richard Reeves’ recent work. This seems to be a pattern, and maybe fatherlessness is a factor through the ages. They better get it together. And women – stop coddling these males; you’re not helping the situation.

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